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HERE
WITH YOU

At some point in time, as we walk through the desert in life, we will need an OASIS ~ a temporal place for rest, restoration & renewal. Let us join you in your journey of growth, breakthrough & transformation. 

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Welcome to

GRACE OASIS

HOPE FOR A CHANGE
​TRUST THE PROCESS

We are a team of dynamic, relational and skilled clinical counsellors based in Singapore. We offer individual and couple therapy.

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ROLAND

HUI SHAN

TABITHA

MELISSA

AMANDA

WE ARE

HERE WITH YOU

Life throws us with challenges at different seasons. At times, it can be hard to cope.

Having someone close to talk to can help, yet this may not be enough. Counselling is a professional therapy service with trained counsellors equipped to help you journey through unique challenges & crisis in life. 

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Ready to start your journey of growth, healing & breakthrough
but unsure what to expect for the first counselling session?

WHAT TO EXPECT

If you are considering counselling and wondering how your first session will be like, it is normal to feel anxious or apprehensive.  To prepare yourself, it is important to understand what is involved in the counselling process. This will help you know what to expect from your counsellor and yourself. Here are three handles to help you "KNOW" how to prepare yourself for the session.

1.  Know the Goals

Counselling is a process of change driven by therapy goals. The absence of goals in counselling will result in aimless pursuit and exploration leading to multiple sessions, yet arriving at nowhere. It is not uncommon for those who are new to counselling, to not know what they wish to achieve. Therefore, it is important to reflect on a simple question that will help you better identify your goals for therapy during the first session:

"What is the change you like to see in yourself,

in the relationship or in the situation you are facing?"

As a result of this change, what will be the better version you wish to see in yourself? It can mean cultivating a renewed mindset to be more adaptive when handling crisis; it can be learning how to cope better with difficult emotions or mastering skills to increase confidence when handling difficult relationships. Your counsellor will be able to help you identify your change goals over the first few sessions.

2.  Know the Counsellor

In the therapy practice, counsellors may be trained in different counselling modalities and equipped with certain counselling techniques to help you become more aware of the underlying issues that drives the challenges you may be facing in reality. While some may explore more on the impacts from the past, others may choose to focus on helping you build resources and skills in the present. There is no one way to healing & growth. 

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That is why the more informed approach to finding a suitable counsellor is to take time and go through their profiles. Instead of choosing a counsellor based on their gender or age, it is better to decide based on their counselling approach and speciality. Click below to view the profile of our counsellors.  

3.  Know the Process

The process of counselling is confidential and it should take place in a safe, open, non-judgmental and supportive environment. Your counsellor should help you to be more mindful and aware of the issues at hand to find the triggers that has impacted you, then guide you how to learn new ways to better navigate through these challenges. But AWARENESS without ACTION isn't suffice for a deep change. It requires your commitment outside the session, which is why counsellors will give HOMEWORK.

 

These may be life assignments that may challenge you to reflect and respond differently or new habits and skills to practice and master. For change to happen, it is also dependent on your dedication to take ACTION and follow through with the homework, trying your utmost to unlearn and relearn new responses and master a new way to forge the breakthrough you would like to see. Your counsellor will be the best person to facilitate this process, but they cannot do that on your behalf. You have to:

"Be the change you wish to see in this world"

Mahatma Gandhi

GET STARTED IN 3 STEPS

Now, if you have decided to consider counselling, here are three simple steps to get started on your personal therapy journey of growth, healing, breakthrough & transformation:

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Submit Online Form

Complete the Appointment Request Form and let us know what support you need & also your preferred date & time to meet.

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Find a suitable counsellor

Our staff will email & text you to arrange a session with a suitable counsellor available to meet on your preferred date & time.

Confirm the Booking

Upon confirming the appointment, we will guide you on how to get to our office and what to expect for the first session.

OUR SERVICES

Individual Therapy

  • Relationship Issues

  • Work & Career Challenges

  • ​Self-Esteem & Confidence

  • Depression, Loss & Grief

  • Stress & Emotional Burnout

  • Anxiety & Trauma

Couple Therapy

  • Pre-Marriage Counselling

  • Marriage Counselling

  • Conflict Resolution

  • Communication Issues

  • Intimacy Issues

  • Infidelity & Affair Recovery

Yoga Retreat

Webinars & Workshops

  • Mental Health Awareness

  • Relationship Wellness

  • Emotional Resilience

  • Self-Esteem & Self-Image

Awareness & Education

  • Mindfulness Practice

  • Outdoor & Nature Therapy

  • ​Self-Improvement Podcast

  • Wellness Events

MARRIAGE COUNSELLING 
HOW DOES IT WORK?

While coming for individual counselling takes courage, it often takes more to explore marriage counselling because this can be a vulnerable process for both you and your partner. There are real concerns that may affect you or your partner to be willing to come at the same time for couple therapy. Should both of you decide to come, do you worry whether it can really work to make the relationship better or make the situation worse? Do you know what to expect?

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We hear you! That is why we made a in-depth video to address some of these concerns and help you understand what to expect for marriage counselling. We hope this will better guide you to decide whether marriage counselling is suitable for you and your partner.

READY FOR A CHANGE

Are you aware we all have patterns of thoughts, mindset and behaviours that can cause us to respond in a similar way that could go in cycles, leading us to see the same outcome every time?

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To change means to break away from these unhelpful patterns. For that to happen, we need deep insights and awareness. If you are ready and willing to see the change in you or with your partner, perhaps it is time to click the button below. We know it takes an extent of personal courage to come for therapy. If you hope for change, trust the process & book an appointment. It will be worth it.

372 Telok Blangah Road

​#02-C Singapore 098836

OUR ADDRESS

9:30 AM - 8:30 PM

Tuesday - Friday

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9:30 AM - 5:30 PM

Saturday

OPENING HOURS
contact

By appointment only

Closed on Sunday, Monday

 & Public Holidays

1 stop from Harbourfront MRT

Parking available at Seah Im Carpark

Or click here for directions!

KEEP
IN TOUCH

SELF-IMPROVEMENT
PODCAST

If you value Self-Growth and see the importance of gaining personal mastery to navigate through challenges in different seasons of life, check out this podcast produced and hosted by our principal counsellor - Roland Koh. Available on Spotify & Apple Podcast.

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